What Does Sexy Mean?

I have a friend who told me that she felt confidence was sexy. When someone is confident about theirself then she finds that very attractive. I could see her point because she was trying to impart high self-esteem to the women around her. Women need to be happy with their assets and not focus on the down points. When a women is always trying to cover-up flaws instead of embracing uniqueness then they are less attractive to those around them. I really do understand that. No one likes a worry-wart girlfriend. However, too much confidence can be a total turn-off. Especially in men. There are so many double standards that I really don't want to go in to but when a woman is overly confident she is just bitchy or a diva. When a man is over-confident he is an arrogant prick. I think women have it easier in this realm because men who are too confident are shunned while women are respected for their confidence most of the time. I tend to find underdogs so very sexy. I like nerdy men. If you take a poll most American women would say Brad Pitt and George Clooney are sexy. They are confident men. I like guys with quirks. My hot Hollywood men are guys like Paul Rudd and AJ Buckley, geeky but sweet and FUNNY. Even Ryan Reynolds in his awkward roles. I find humor sexiest of all. Never mind a guy with swagger, give me someone that can tell a joke and I'm a goner every time.